In our conscious evolutionary journey, we often find the need to clear the energies around our shadows, aspects of ourselves that we prefer not to see. These shadows are not negative per se, but we may perceive them that way, so we tend to bury our awareness of them and to project them onto others. What I offer here may not be the textbook version, but I will share some of what I’ve learned based on my studies and experiences around shadows and projections. I will also share some personal stories to illustrate how these play out in our lives. May these serve you in your journey.
Our crafty shadows have a way of running our show, whether we’re conscious of them or not. In our shadow’s attempt to get our attention and to become integrated, we may project them onto others. When that happens, we may feel judgment, disappointment, anger, distrust or conversely, envy or unhealthy adoration. And here’s a clue for you: often it’s our mate, colleagues, or others very close to us who receive our greatest projections! That, of course, is uncomfortable. And that’s the point! It really gets our attention! Continue reading