{"id":1269,"date":"2014-12-07T11:46:58","date_gmt":"2014-12-07T19:46:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sagespiritcoaching.com\/blog\/?p=1269"},"modified":"2014-12-15T07:49:11","modified_gmt":"2014-12-15T15:49:11","slug":"letting-love-lead-a-guest-blog-post-by-alluvia-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/sagespiritcoaching.com\/blog\/?p=1269","title":{"rendered":"Letting Love Lead \u2013 A Guest Blog Post by Alluvia Love"},"content":{"rendered":"
\"Alluvia<\/a>

Alluvia Love, Photo Credit: Athena Llamas<\/p><\/div>\n

Relationships\/connections are primarily about Love over any individual\u2019s needs and when Love is allowed to lead, individual needs are met. This is possible because Love, and not ego, determines the way individual needs are met in accordance with the needs of the Universal whole.<\/em>\u00a0~ Alluvia Love<\/p>\n

You may remember a guest blog post I shared last March by Alluvia Love,
\n\u201cThe New Science of Personal Responsibility<\/a>,\u201d \u00a0and the quote above that I shared last October in, “Authentic Love: Um, Where\u2019s My Map<\/a>.\u201d Alluvia\u2019s shamanic rebirth emerged from the literal near-death of her physical body. In my opinion, her unique and powerful journey has enhanced her evolutionary consciousness and perspectives in remarkable ways, and I always enjoy her visionary wisdom that she shares on facebook and in our conversations. Without further ado, I will share her thoughts on Love with deep honoring and gratitude. Click here<\/a> to stay in touch with Alluvia on facebook and, of course, we welcome your thoughts and comments below.<\/p>\n

“Letting Love Lead”\u00a0<\/strong>by Alluvia Love<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Alluvia<\/a>

Alluvia ~ Self Portrait, December 2014<\/p><\/div>\n

Humanity is entering a new relationship paradigm.\u00a0 The new way of connecting with another human has nothing to do with rights, ownership, expectation or exclusivity.\u00a0 It is about learning to let Love lead, about trusting an abundant and life-affirming Universe, and about service to Gaia.<\/p>\n

Does the idea of losing control of the other humans around you bring terror?\u00a0 Let your fear guide you to your limiting beliefs about what is a human being and what is our natural role in connecting with one another.\u00a0 If you look around you will see that the only being you can control and own is yourself.\u00a0 Every other being will come and go and live and die on their own path.\u00a0 Even if they make a promise to always be there, it will not be true in a physical sense.\u00a0 Truly we cannot own anything because it is all a temporary manifestation of a life-affirming Universe in which change is the only rule.<\/p>\n

Humans seek to create certainty in an uncertain river of life.\u00a0 We create insurance contracts, employment contracts and marriage contracts.\u00a0 Human agreements don\u2019t mean anything to the natural world which will burn, erupt, erode and die.\u00a0 This is what the paradigm shift is all about.\u00a0 Humans have gone too far against nature and the Universe is requiring us to realign with the natural world in order to survive as a species.\u00a0 The paradigm shift is about reclaiming our true human nature so that we can co-exist peacefully and beneficially with Gaia.<\/p>\n

So the new paradigm relationship work for humans is all about reclaiming self in connectivity with Gaia.\u00a0 In rediscovering our true sacred nature as humans and our unique life paths as individual sovereign beings in service to the Whole, we also rediscover and reclaim our ability to connect in a life-affirming way with other humans.<\/p>\n

Flo Aeveia Magdalena<\/a>, healer\/teacher\/author, says it beautifully:<\/p>\n

By claiming the self, you learn how to stay in a dedicated space of ritual with your own being. It means that everything you\u2019re living makes sense because it honours everyone at the same time.\u00a0 It honours you and it honours the other person. It frees them from responsibility to make you happy, to have sex with you, to marry you, to give you children, or to be in some way present for you \u2013 supporting you financially, emotionally or in any other way. It says, \u201cI\u2019m going to do all this for myself. I\u2019m going to live this in a way that makes sense to me. Every moment from this time forward, my own honouring is my primary focus. If I honour my field in integrity, I live in a fullness that makes me awaken all the time to my own capacities and potentials.” \u00a0You are creating a reality so that the other person can respond to you from that set of circumstances.<\/em><\/p>\n

Reclaiming self is the service we all commit to one another in any form of relationship.\u00a0 It is our highest service to \u201cother\u201d and to Gaia.\u00a0 Self-realization takes us out of victim mode (I need you) and stands us firmly in our personal power (I am complete and I want to share my capacity with you).\u00a0 The empowered human always has a unique potential to share, and nothing to demand or expect or exclude.<\/p>\n

Exclusion is an old paradigm concept.\u00a0 New paradigm is inherently interconnected and therefore all-inclusive.\u00a0 That doesn\u2019t mean we have to allow what we don\u2019t enjoy in our immediate surroundings.\u00a0 It means we serve the highest purpose for everyone involved.\u00a0 That means if two humans cannot enjoy one another, then they will physically separate themselves \u00a0by a distance so as not to diminish the vibration\/capacity of either.\u00a0 This is an act of courtesy and not fear.\u00a0 Ultimately we will all cease to fear one another.\u00a0 The empowered human has nothing to fear in relationship because she is already complete.\u00a0 Anything the sovereign allows into her realm is Joy to her because she lets Love lead.<\/p>\n

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